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Pacing Your Healing Work The RIGHT Way: Here’s How

January 08, 20251 min read

Pacing Your Healing Work The RIGHT Way: Here’s How

Understanding the right pacing for trauma recovery is a crucial yet often overlooked step in the healing journey. Dr. Maria Bargeman outlines how to determine a personalized pace that aligns with your emotional capacity and life circumstances. Through her "traffic light" metaphor, she explains how green, yellow, and red emotional states can guide your approach to processing trauma. This ensures you can progress without overwhelming your nervous system or stalling your growth.

In this episode, Dr. Bargeman emphasizes the importance of evaluating your current life responsibilities, self-care practices, and social supports. She offers practical advice on how to recognize your emotional bandwidth and adapt your healing work accordingly. From building emotional regulation skills to setting boundaries with others, her insights provide a roadmap for creating a safe and effective healing environment.

Dr. Maria Bargeman is a licensed clinical psychologist and trauma recovery expert, committed to helping individuals reclaim their lives from the impact of trauma. Her compassionate approach combines scientific knowledge with actionable strategies. Learn more about Dr. Bargeman and her work at mariabargeman.com/about.


Takeaways

  1. Pace Your Healing: Finding the right pace for trauma recovery involves assessing your emotional stability, daily energy levels, and life responsibilities.

  2. Build Resilience: Develop emotional regulation skills and self-care practices to create a solid foundation for healing.

  3. Leverage Support: Strong social connections and healthy boundaries can make the healing journey less isolating and more sustainable.

  4. Stay Flexible: Life circumstances change; adapt your pacing to ensure progress without overwhelming yourself.

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